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“Creating Healthy Relationships Starts with a Healthy You.”


Hey Family!

My name is Donte Allen.

I’m a writer, speaker, Pastor, and a creative. even with all of that I’m honestly just a normal guy trying to help others the best way I can.

I married the love of my life on a beautiful New Years Eve, and a few year later we had our sweet’n sassy daughter Nissi.

In 2018 we decided to pack up everything we owned into a 6 foot trailer, and move across the country to San Diego, California to pursue my career as a writer and speaker. crazy right?!

My Story

After graduating from college, I was completely lost, and didn’t know what I wanted to do with my life! All I knew was that I loved God, I loved people, and I enjoyed bridging the two through building authentic and healthy relationships.

I didn’t really think that this could be any kind of career, until I started working with Youth coming out of correctional facilities, mental health institutions, unstable homes. These youngsters were transitioning back into society, but many with a broken view of healthy relationships.

It was here that I realized that I had a passion for helping the next generation build healthy relationships, first with God, then with themselves, then with others around them.

This later lead to me becoming a licensed pastor and eventually a Youth Pastor, but there were times where I felt like I didn’t quite fit.

While seeing the problem of youngsters struggling to build authentic and healthy relationships, I chose to step out and publish my first book “So I Just Got Saved. Now What?!”, helping others practically navigate through what a healthy relationship with God looks like.

Now along with writing, I am speaking to our next generation about what a healthy relationship looks like with themselves, with God, and with others.

You can connect connect with me on Social Media.